NEXT EVENT: MID-SEPTEMBER

Where goingsteady begins

Skip the endless swiping and awkward first dates. We curate small groups of compatible singles for fun activities around NYC. No apps, no games - just real people who actually want relationships.

You're exhausted

Dating apps are terrifying

Horror stories everywhere. Catfishing, ghosting, people who just want hookups. You're scared to meet strangers from the internet, and honestly, you should be.

Your friends can't help

You're tired of asking for setups. They don't know anyone. Or they set you up with someone who "isn't really looking for anything serious right now." Again.

You just want to meet the one

Someone real. Someone who actually wants a relationship. Someone you can build a life with.

Create Your Profile

Here's how it works

No more swiping. No more asking friends. Just real people who want real relationships.

Fill out your profile, then wait

Our detailed questionnaire goes deep - how you see the world, your drive, confidence level, social energy, whether you're introverted or extroverted. We're not just matching you on looks or shared hobbies like skiing. There's a sophisticated algorithm analyzing your personality, values, and relationship style to find your true matches.

Deep personality analysis
Sophisticated matching algorithm
Beyond surface-level compatibility

"Analyzing your worldview, drive, social energy, and 47 other personality dimensions..."

Personality AnalysisComplete
Values AssessmentComplete
Compatibility MatchingIn Progress...
Finding Your Matches

You get the call

"We found your matches. You're invited to skeeball this Thursday." You don't know who they are ahead of time. But you know they're single, vetted, and looking for the same thing you are.

3-5 potential matches
Element of surprise

"Your matches are confirmed. You're invited to mini golf this Saturday at 7pm."

Invitation Sent

You show up and have fun

Skeeball, arcade games, driving range, shuffleboard, mini golf. Fun activities where you can actually talk and get to know each other. No awkward dinner silences. Just genuine connections.

Fun, interactive activities
Natural conversation starters

14 people, 4 matches for you, 1 amazing night

"I was so tired of dating apps and asking friends for setups. This was the first time in years I actually had fun meeting someone new."
Sarah, 29
Met her boyfriend at arcade night
Discover Your Match
DEADLINE: SEPTEMBER 5TH
NEXT EVENT: MID-SEPTEMBER

Ready to findyour person?

Sign up by September 5th to get a chance at being invited to our mid-September event.

Takes 7 minutes to complete our detailed personality assessment. We analyze your worldview, drive, social energy, and dozens of other dimensions to find your perfect matches.

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Limited spots available • Deadline: September 5th